3x18 awkward online dating
If it comes to feel like work – it’s too scary, too draining, too time-consuming, etc., then take a break.You do not have to meet up with or even respond to anyone who writes you. Keep expectations WAY low about the level & frequency of communication that will happen and don’t act entitled to anyone’s time or attention or put up with anyone who abuses yours.
I have extremely minimal experience in forging or seeking relationships, partly because although I am not asexual, I am not comfortable with the idea of sex, and do not…ascribe to the gender binary…, but at the same time would like to have a romantic relationship.
Post multiple, accurate pictures of yourself, including full body shots, how you dress, etc.
I realize this can be anxiety-making for my fellow fats & people who play around with gender presentation but think of it this way: People who write to you and who respond enthusiastically to your messages enthusiastically like & approve what you look like.
IT IS OKAY TO NOT LIKE SOMEONE AND TO BAIL, EVEN IF IT SEEMED LIKE YOU WOULD LIKE THEM/YOU EXCHANGED A LOT OF MESSAGES/THEY MIGHT BE SAD. IT IS OKAY TO BAIL THIS IS A NO-PRESSURE SITUATION.
And whatever happens with the person is okay as long as it is okay with you and okay with them and you feel safe and comfortable and happy. If things go well you will have lots of chances to shape & figure out how you want things to work in the future.